Back to School

It has been ages since I left school. The last few days I had the opportunity to spend some quality time with school students of different schools. As I had indicated in one of my previous posts, the transition to the Career Profiling area has been an eye opener in an area called 'Education' which churns out thousands who believe that they have the required 'qualifications' and then it slowly dawns on them that they do not have the 'learning' required to endure the pitfalls of everyday life. They often get lost trying to figure out when what went wrong in their life or career and are frantically trying to find ways by which their children would not end up where they are!!! Life gets pulled in all directions..... and then what is left of life is 'Survival'. Today's children needs a strong foundation, where their idea's will occupy their mind in complete and they will be able to transform the idea to a physical or mental. As Swami Vivekananda has said " Each soul is potentially divine. The goal is to manifest this divinity by controlling nature, external and internal. Do this either by work, or worship, or psychic control, or philosophy - by one, or more, or all of these - and be free."

You would not believe if I told you that, interactions with the young minds help relieve stress on one hand and is a great source of knowledge and arouses the thought process. I ask each of you to explore this area at least once....

School life today is mechanical and very stressful. Above all of this is the fear of different forms of examinations. It looks like today schools have more examinations than study!!! I have always wondered, on the knowledge level of the toppers and top scorers and rank holders. There is a stark difference between knowledge and education today. In my professional life, I have had numerous occasions when I lost my cool, conducting interviews. The candidate who had come for the interviews showcases their degree and certifications, however in reality s/he does not even know the fundamentals. How pathetic.

In the last couple of years I have had the strongest desire to bring about a radical change in our education system. I knew that I do not have the wherewithal or right connections or powerful backings or even money to make even a miniscule of change!!!!! However somewhere within me I knew that my desire was too strong to take a back seat. Three years back when I started Career Profiling as part of a Summer Camp, there were many of my so called "well wishers" who said 'great initiative, but you should just do this part time; it is not wise to leave IT. You should join with some tuition centre or coaching institute else how will you survive.' I am happy that I listened to my inner voice and managed(still manage) to hold on against various odds.

The SKIE program a unique initiative by Vivekananda Kendra Vedic Vision Foundation to address the overall development of an individual, focusing on students from Class VIII, started off with the initial assessments being conducted at different schools. All the schools that we visited to introduce the program have welcomed the initiative and the children are excited to see something different from normal tuitions and weekend entrance coaching classes!!!

SKIE is for (S)elf,

SKIE is about gaining (K)nowledge,

SKIE is about being (I)nformed so that the knowledge can be shared with others, and

SKIE is about (E)ssence, the quality in an individual, the character of a person, because we all know that we can earn the love and respect of others only if we are good to them.

Hence the focus of the program will be on Self Discovery, Education, Knowledge, Attitude, and Life Skills.

The yearlong program has been planned to go along with the academics and will focus on simplifying learning of regular school subjects, and to find their usefulness in our day to day living. The purpose of the study is often lost in the rush to finish the curriculum and attain good marks. Along with this the program will have regular sessions on Communication skills, Memory Management, Concentration techniques and Life Skills.

For me to be part of the program from the delivery angle is a dream come true. I cannot even imagine the vast amount of knowledge that I stand to gain from the children, the joy of seeing Children who will write examinations with a smile, the happiness of Parents in seeing their child/children confidently stand on their own legs, ready to face any situation that warrants it. In today's troubled times, it is very depressing to note that "Being Human" is a far-fetched thought. How unfortunate is it that today we identify individuals by their profession, or qualification or lineage or at times it is a social group or otherwise forgetting the fact that we are a 'Human' first.

The SKIE program aims at upholding Swami Vivekananda's famous quote " We want that education by which character is formed, strength of mind is increased, the intellect is expanded, and by which one can stand on one's own feet."

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The Grim face of reality

In the last three years that I moved into the area of Career Profiling, I have had numerous interactions with Parents and children(of different ages), the subject of the discussion mostly centred around what the child would want to do in life. In all these discussion there has always been the emphasis of Career, which used to worry me a lot and continuous to do so. Today a friend shared a post on Facebook, which had some alarming data and raised serious concerns. It also re-enforced my  worry ‘what is the future of the children of this country’. I took the liberty of the visiting the source site of the news and prepared some quick pie charts. Adding them here :

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  • Only 33% of our Indian population(parents) want our children to be healthy
  • Only 49% of our Indian population (parents) want our children to be happy
  • Only 22% of our Indian population(parents) want our children to be earn enough to enjoy a comfortable life
  • Only 17% of our Indian population(parents) want our children to fulfil their potential
  • 51% of our Indian population(parents) want our children to be successful in their career
Where are we headed ? What good is the career without the self ? The self is comprised of good Health and Happiness. What career can an individual have without potential? Parents, do you want your child to have a great career that spans few years/months/days or be a good Human Being for life. If you are only a ‘human’ to pursue a career, how different are you from an animal. Animals do not have a choice, they cannot choose to be different, however as humans we have the choice. Let us live like a human. As Swami Vivekananda says “There is no help for you outside of yourself; you are the creator of the universe. Like the silkworm you have built a cocoon around yourself…. Burst your own cocoon and come out aw the beautiful butterfly, as the free soul. Then alone you will see Truth.” As parents don’t bind your child/children in a rat hole called career, Life is far bigger and greater than that.

Couple of weeks back there was an article by Dr. Stephen Hawking, that robots or Artificial intelligence could rule the over mankind in future. The ‘51%’ can contribute to this in a big way.

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Yoga and Mind Management - Part II

National Institutes of Health's (NIH)1 MedlinePlus says - ' Today, we accept that there is a powerful mind-body connection through which emotional, mental, social, spiritual, and behavioral factors can directly affect our health.' (http://goo.gl/wiLUaB)

The "Mind" decides when I should be happy or sad. We would have always thought that not having something is the primary cause of sadness. However it is not true, having something does not necessarily make you happy :-). It is actually the "Mind's" reaction towards what we have and do not have that gets expressed physically(oe emotionally) as being 'happy' or 'sad'. Now that is complicated and utterly confusing. Let's delve a little bit into details to slightly understand this.

I am not sure if I can define Mind in a single word or sentence; it is not physical for sure, and does not have a form. The mind can be loosely differentiated as conscious, unconscious and subconscious. The conscious mind has it inputs from our five senses - vision, hearing, smell, taste and touch. Amongst the five senses vision can be said to be most powerful, after all we can things close by and very far away(the stars!), our hearing comes next and is limited to a couple of metres, next 'smell' which can be detected only much closer, taste even closer and finally touch. The conscious mind can fall asleep, which is why when sleeping we are at peace - no inputs ;-) So we can kind of say that the communication from outside to inside happens through the conscious mind.

The subconscious mind is something like the Random Access Memory (RAM) of the computer, keeps our recent memories and also is in touch with the unconscious mind to dig up information. The unconscious mind is a storehouse of everything(all inputs from the five senses are stored continuously!!!). Un-edited data from a time ---- I am not sure. If you ask me, is it from birth? well not necessarily, before that. So from when, I really do not know, I think we have not acquired the skills to find that. It is like the hard disk, I can do a security erase/ wipe disk and believe that data cannot be recovered. I do not know, there may be technology that can retrieve the data!!! Scary stuff!!!

Hence Mind is an important element. What has been thought in the Mind is always more powerful and could have a different purpose, than actions that have been performed as a part of the thought. How is that possible, well let's look at a hypothetical scenario? A man who was a diabetic patient was supposed to have an amputation - 'The right leg, from two inches below the knee.' The operation was scheduled for the coming Monday, and he was to be admitted on Monday morning. On Sunday night a burglary happened at the patient's house. There was a tussle during which the burglar struck the man with a knife, and the man's right leg got severed, exactly from two inches below the knee!!! The man did not sustain any other injury and the burglar was caught. Question :
  • Should the burglar be arrested and charged?
  • Shouldn't the man pardon the burglar, after all he saved a lot of money as the operation was no longer required and no money or valuable was lost. :-) ?
However morally and as per law, the burglar should be charged with man-slaughter and appropriate punishments meted out. Why, well the burglar's intention was to harm the man!!! It means that there is a moral code of conduct that everyone is expected to follow. In sanskrit it is termed as "Dharma"2 and loosely means to keep, to maintain or hold. Something like upholding the law. The only difference is that the exact meaning of 'Dharma' is situationally different. Example : Amassing wealth; There is nothing wrong about it. After all to take care of the needs of the family and for the society to sustain and flourish, wealth is required. So the desire to have wealth is fine, but not greed for wealth!!! So it is important for the individual to have the right means(or righteous means) to acquire wealth, the right moderation in the use of the acquired wealth and the right intentions. This is a very basic understanding of Dharma with regard to wealth.

Okay then back to Mind Management, so now we understand that the mind is not easy to control or rather I have no control over my mind!!! One's intelligence is governed by egotism, instead of being the other way round. Hence there is neither peace nor happiness in one's mind. Govern your mind, lest it govern you.

I was hoping to conclude this topic here, however it looks like it is going to take couple of more paragraphs, hence will stop for now. As indicated in the first part, these writings are my understanding and interpretation of Sri. Girishji's talk on Mind Management. The original talk was in Malayalam, hence with my limited understanding I had to do a lot of additional reading to understand certain areas. I consider myself lucky to have been able to listen to this talk, an din the process rake my own thoughts. I would like to add that I have taken the liberty to add some additional stuff (after some extensive reading) to clarify few areas for the benefit of everyone and self. And as I always believe the force has always been with me and will be....(courtesy Star Wars)

1 The National Institutes of Health (NIH) is a biomedical research facility primarily located in Bethesda, Maryland. An agency of the United States Department of Health and Human Services, it is the primary agency of the United States government responsible for biomedical and health-related research. (https://goo.gl/v6rzUc) 2 Dharma ([dʱəɾmə]; Sanskrit: धर्म dharma, Pali: धम्म dhamma) is a key concept with multiple meanings in the Indian religions Hinduism, Buddhism, Sikhism and Jainism.There is no single word translation for dharma in western languages.   (https://goo.gl/i4qrBT)
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Yoga and Mind Management

Yoga means to join. Join means to connect or link two or more things. Most of us connect Yoga with Asanas or the exercises; however there is more to it. So Yoga basically means a fusion of the mind and body.

Sri. Girishkumar, the founder chairman of Shripuram Trust, presided over the concluding program of Yoga Sapthaham at Anandadham, Kodungallur. His talk on Mind Management put to rest the many doubts in the mind's of the audience and ignited the thought process on all round benefits of Yoga and the subtle but critical importance of Mind Management in the overall wellbeing of the individual. Girishji explained that to live a good life human's require three entities, the body, the mind and intelligence in the right proportion. Else it can be disastrous, for e.g. if an individual is extraordinarily intelligent a genius, it can be a problem as most of the time they are typically misunderstood and underestimated by peers, by society, and usually even by themselves resulting in underutilizing of their potential. The same is true in the case of Mind and Body. Binding the Body, the Mind and Intelligence and ensuring that there is good synchronization between each is what yoga helps an individual achieve.

Yoga for the body helps to ensure that the various components of our body are in a healthy state and are in good co-ordination with each other. The body is the most important instrument to do anything in life.

" शरीरमाद्यं खलु धर्मसाधनम् (sharIramAdyaM khalu dharmasAdhanam) - The body is the foremost instrument for doing good deeds. "

A good body, free of diseases and healthy is important to enjoy the fruits of our hard work. Ghata Yoga an interpretation of asana as described by Patanjali Maharshi's Ashtanga yoga. Ghata means earthen pot. Just as a clay pot must be baked in a kiln for it to serve the purpose, similarly the human body considered akin to the pot needs to undergo the transformation through yoga, to successfully accomplish the goals in life. The asanas also help discipline the various parts of the human body an action that happens consciously. At the same the unconsciously the prana shakti or life force(vitality) is also disciplined. The prana shakti or vitality is a kind of a physical entity, the non-materialistic entity can be described as the mind. So essentially we are slowly moving from a materialistic to a no-materialistic realm. We all know that the mind like our knowledge or intelligence is not something that we can see or touch! Ofcourse this can bring in some confusion, as all the while we have been made to understand about object that we can look and feel. However it is also true that it is not necessary for us to believe that something exists only because we have seen it or felt it. As Sri Ramakrisha says "You see many stars in the sky at night, but not when the sun rises. Can you therefore say that there are no stars in the heavens during the day?"

This essentially means that the path to the non-materialistic realm is through materialistic means, the path to the mind is the body! In this context it is of utmost importance to understand that all asana's are not suitable to everybody and hence needs to be practised under proper guidance.

So much for now, the "Mind" is something that has no boundaries. Will continue in my next post. All that I have penned are my very basic understanding of Sri Girishji's talk.

The description on "Mind" and its definite and impactfull part in our day to day life needs another post :-)

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